Popcorn and Parables (Disney Villain edition)-Week 2

The Lion King — Am I My Brother’s Keeper?

Week 2 Popcorn and Parables Blog

Genesis 4:1-23

It’s extremely difficult to find people these days that haven’t heard of the story of Cain and Abel.  The first murder recorded in Biblical history.  Considering the story’s fame I don’t think there’s a need to go deep into an exegesis of Genesis 4:1-23, but I wanted to share something that has always bothered me about the story.  To sum it up, it’s hard for me to understand how a man could kill his little brother over a rejected offering.  How could a moment of rage overrule a lifetime of relationship with your own blood? How can a temporary desire cause you to murder someone you grew up with?  The little information we have in the story leads me to conclude that Cain wasn’t really a nice guy to begin with, highlighted poignantly by his response to God when asked where his brother Abel was after killing him in the field. 

Genesis 4:9 (ESV) 

9Then the Lord said to Cain, “Where is Abel your brother?” He said, “I do not know; am I my brother’s keeper?” 

There’s a sense of annoyance in Cain’s response to God’s question, and it’s clear Cain felt no sense of responsibility towards Abel at all, not as a brother, and not as a fellow human being.  

Who Are My Brothers and Sisters?

After I was born, my older brother John would crawl into my crib with me to hold me, protect me, and when I got old enough to respond, play with me.  When I was 6 years old and I tattled on my brother and his friends for stealing candy at the local Pay N’ Pak at Thrasher’s Corner my brother is the one who protected me from his friends who all rightly wanted to beat me to death.  When I was 8 and confessed to helping vandalize a local elementary school along with my brother and his friends, once again my brother stepped in to defend me against them. Oddly, they stopped involving me in their shenanigans after that.  When I was 21 and my brother went with me to celebrate, and some idiot in the club started harassing me, it was my big brother who took me aside out of earshot and said “I know this type. If he pushes any more, whatever you decide to do I’ll have your back.”  When my wife had a miscarriage and we lost our baby, it was my big brother who said “We’ve been through this. I’m here if you want to talk.” My brother has always been my keeper, even on the days we drew each other’s blood quarrelling. The bond that siblings have from growing up together reminds me of a verse from the 21 Pilots song Stressed Out:

Sometimes a certain smell will take me back to when I was young
How come I'm never able to identify where it's coming from
I'd make a candle out of it if I ever found it
Try to sell it, never sell out of it, I'd probably only sell one

It'd be to my brother, 'cause we have the same nose
Same clothes homegrown a stone's throw from a creek we used to roam
But it would remind us of when nothing really mattered
Out of student loans and tree-house homes we all would take the latter

Your brothers and sisters are the ones you grow up with, go through trials with, survive tragedy with.  I would also suggest that If this kind of bond can be built between complete strangers experiencing trial and tribulation together, how much more should people who grew up together have the same sense of responsibility towards one another?  So yes, Cain. The message from God here is that you are your brother’s keeper, and His message to us now is that we are also.  You are your brother’s keeper, and you are your sister’s keeper. The bond that exists between siblings extends also into God’s kingdom, and our conduct regarding our spiritual responsibility for each other has impact on everyone around us.  We’re all in the same boat when it comes to being in the body of Christ (1 Corinthians 12), and we will sit together, alive in heavenly places with Christ Jesus (Ephesians 2). It should be no surprise that when we ignore our personal and private obligation to our brothers and sisters, everyone around us suffers.

In Disney’s The Lion King, driven by a desire to have a kingdom that was not his, Scar plots against and kills his brother.  The result is broken relationships within the family, lack of food supply leading to starvation, and the land laid to waste.  The story of Jacob and his brother Esau comes to mind (Genesis 25:29-34) , where Jacob in his desire to have his older brother’s birthright managed to get it, but had to flee for his life (Genesis 27:41-44) afterwards.  Broken relationship and a whole lot of work to reconcile and repair the damage. The story of Ammon, Tamar, and Absalom from 2 Samuel 13:1-22 resulted in rape and murder, and a kingdom in shambles. God expects us to be keepers of one another.  There is no room in the New Testament for a Heaven populated by individuals that aren’t connected.  

O Brother, Where Art Thou?

Now that the larger point has been made, let me bring this back to siblings for a second before I wrap this up.  A very good friend of mine grew up in a wonderful household, the youngest of two children. He and his older brother had a good relationship with each other and with their parents all the way into their young adult life.  Tragedy struck one day when their parents were out on a drive and were struck and killed by a drunk driver. Each of them dealt with the tragedy in different ways that weren’t always conducive to healthy sibling relationships.  Angry, bitter, and devastated, they lost touch and parted ways. 10 years later, my friend gave his life to Jesus and the two of us were in a men’s Bible study, and when Genesis 4:9 was read aloud and Cain rhetorically asked God “Am I my brother’s keeper?”, my friend though he was the youngest of the two brothers decided then and there to re-connect and reconcile with his brother based on the conviction the Spirit placed on him.  For years he thought “I’m the youngest, so I’ll just wait until my older brother reaches out to me”, but God reminded him of his own responsibility; that it doesn’t matter who is older, what matters is the relationship. Thanks to Jesus, the two have reconciled and are leaning on each other once again as they deal with the untimely passing of their parents.  

Here’s the closing question then:  do you have a broken relationship that you need Christ’s help to fix?  Isn’t it about time for you to make the first move and seek out your brother (or sister) and be reconciled?  Are you thinking maybe that it’s just not possible? There’s too much bad blood, too much history, too much hurt.  Well, you’re not alone if you’re thinking along those lines but let me provide you some encouragement once again from Jacob and Esau’s story.  After living abroad for a few years, Jacob eventually returned home and knew that he was going to have to face an older brother that previously had wanted to kill him.  On the way home, Jacob arranged to send gifts in advance to his brother to sort of soften him up a little bit, maybe hoping that by the time Jacob got home his brother would just give him a beating instead of killing him.  Instead, this happened:

Genesis 33:8–11 (ESV) 

8Esau said, “What do you mean by all this company that I met?” Jacob answered, “To find favor in the sight of my lord.” 

9But Esau said, “I have enough, my brother; keep what you have for yourself.” 

10Jacob said, “No, please, if I have found favor in your sight, then accept my present from my hand. For I have seen your face, which is like seeing the face of God, and you have accepted me. 

God is so good, friends.  If by His power, grace, and mercy he can fix Jacob and Esau then He is more than worthy of helping you restore your own broken relationships whether they be flesh and blood brothers and sisters, or the ones you’ve developed along the way.  You are your brother’s keeper.

Brother, let me be your shelter

Never leave you all alone

I can be the one you call when you’re feeling low

Brother, let me be your fortress

When the night winds are driving on

Be the one to light the way

Bring you home

-NeedtoBreathe

-Written by James Boerner

When in Rome--Week 5

Today's blog is about relationships, Specifically my relationship with people after I became a Christ follower. 
by Wayne Clinton.

There's no question that my relationships became different as time passed., And there's no question that it was difficult to establish the new way to have relationships with people through Christ. I thought that it would be easy, but it wasn't so simple. I had changed in my inner spirit, at least the way i viewed who Jesus, God and the Holy Spirit were relationally to me, Those relationships were now far more personal and deeper and more meaningful and the bible made more sense to me than ever before. 

However my thoughts about people hadn't changed along with it. Almost all of my friends at the time that I became a Christian were not Christians. And those relationships suffered because i withdrew from a huge portion of my past lifestyle. That's the "do not conform to the patterns of this world" part for me, I didn't leave the people from those relationships as much as they didn't want me around them any longer. My new thoughts towards people and how to handle those relationships needed help. I found the right words in the book of Romans. Romans 12 begins with the word (therefore) I've learned that means I need to know what happened in God's word before what I am reading now. So I back up to Romans 11 which talks about grace, Gods grace for me the person who is not from Jewish descent. in Romans 11 it talks about gardening and being grafted into the main VINE of the (chosen Olive Tree.) that would mean (descendants of Abraham) grafted in where some of the natural branches have been cut off from the main branch for their unbelief. So i better not do this.... fall away from unbelief, for if God didn't spare the natural branches why would he spare me the grafted in one for doing the same thing.

I'm not confused about this, it makes sense its simple gardening. God's grace saved me and he tells me not to be arrogant BECAUSE I have been grafted in where its natural branches used to be, and to remember that the branch that I am grafted into is fed from the root, and that root is Jewish by nature, therefore I must not be conceded and think of myself more highly than I should and i must remain in my belief and not fall. It was with that humbled mind set that Romans 12 speaks living words of wisdom.
Romans 12:1-2 reads, Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing and perfect will.

So I gathered from that read, That because of Gods mercy for me and by changing the way I think about who i am and how i choose to live my life, and by not following the ways of popularity of the worlds approach and the need of their approval of my choices, it will change the outcome of the relationships that I'm dealing with in my life. Both with God and mankind.
it continues with this..
Romans 12:4-5
For just as each of us has one body with many members, and these members do not all have the same function, so in Christ we, though many, form one body, and each member belongs to all the others.
Romans 12:4‭-‬5 NIV

This is where i get my NEW THOUGHTS going. So just as i have my physical body with its different parts like my eyes, hands, feet, ears, nose, mouth, heart, lungs its still ONE body. I now have this NEW BODY, because i have become a Christian. And i no longer belong to myself but to all the other people in the church..SAY WHAT !
If that's the truth, then how i think and how I live in private, and in public is subject to the rest of the ONE body, and its members.
In other words i need to be the best version of me through a renewed way of thinking for all the other people in the church. And i need to also be PRESENT to be WITH them at church regardless of whether or not they conform to this new thinking. I need to be available to be seen and to be ready to help the other members of the ONE BODY. I need to be in the body even if my life gets tough. 
This is so true. I know that when i make the devoted choice to drag my butt to church again when life's struggles or its business are pulling me the other way, and i walk through the doors to find the woman whose husband just abandoned a 25 year marriage or the man who just buried his sister to the grave days earlier standing in the lobby, that i without a doubt made the right choice for the rest of the body. Its a new way of treating relationships for me. And it has been very fulfilling. 

Now there is still the relationships with the rest of the world, the non believers.
So i must return back to Romans 12:9-21
Here is a brief summary stolen from my bibles footnotes of these verses.
Stop pretending how to love and how to speak kind words, stop pretending to be compassionate. Sincere love requires concentration and effort. It means helping others become better people. It demands our time, money, and personal involvement. 
Honor people because they are created in Gods image not because of who they are in their position or stature or wealth. Be hospitable even with a messy house and Top Ramen for a meal, not just when things are clean and above average. You can be hospitable even when your too tired, or too busy or not wealthy enough to entertain.
Be willing to forgive because you have experienced Gods grace, don't you want to pass on what that is like to experience. Remember grace is undeserved favor. Do not repay evil with evil, but with good. Kind words or a smile and right actions can diffuse a bomb. Be willing to forgive. be kind to those who persecute you, turn an enemy into a friend if possible. Live at peace with everyone. 

WOW what a big order to follow right. But remember...
"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me."
Philippians 4:13